Try to acquire the virtues you believe lacking in your brothers. Then you will no longer see their defects, for you will no longer have them yourself. (from St. Augustine quoted by St. Josemaria Escriva in Christ is Passing By)

We cannot regard this Lent as just another liturgical season which has simply happened to come around again. It is a unique time: a divine aid which we should accept. Jesus is passing by, and he hopes we will take a great step forward –today, now. – St. Josemaria Escriva (Christ is Passing By-Scepter Press)